Let's face it: It's incredibly sexy to observe someone else experiencing sexual pleasure. When partners are truly tuned in to each other, oral sex can be just as arousing and pleasurable to give as it is to receive. But to get the most enjoyment from giving oral sex to another person, one needs to be exceptionally present during the act. If you are giving your partner oral pleasure simply as a means to an end, then you probably won't enjoy it as much. Getting into the mindset that you are pleasuring your partner for your own stimulation as well can be a real game-changer. These oral sex tips will teach you how to have passionate oral sex that's mutually pleasurable:. First, always ask permission.
Don’t go straight for the clit.
What more excuse do you need? Watching pornography can be a great way to bone up on technique. But remember: nobody is expecting a perfect porno reenactment.
When it comes to performing oral sex , it can be as helpful knowing what not to do as what you should be doing. With some help from my friends, here's a definitive guide of what to avoid when you're going down:. If your hand skills are good enough, you barely have to use your lips.
In fact, oral sex is widely known as the most reliable way to give a person with a vulva the big O. Studies consistently show that the vast majority of vulva-owners require clitoral stimulation in order to have an orgasm, and oral sex puts the clit front and center. This is just science, friends. The issue? Given the state of sex-ed in America, we're assuming you didn't hear the word "clitoris" in school.