Right now she won't even watch a movie. Thank you so much, L. I learned that going out and having fun with friends every single weekend was not going to be part of our lifestyle together due to time restrictions, tiredness, etc. Then a few months later he was not given time off for our daughter's pre-school graduation which was a big deal at the school especially since the school was closing. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. Have you seen southpark episode on Mormons. On top of that, we don't have personal time for each other and as a family often. Why do we not talk about Heavenly Mother.
She might not realize how important it is to compromise. This is not to say that I need to be the center of attention all the time, but just that I think all the time spent alone makes it more difficult to connect with each other. However, now that the student loans are paid off and we have a nice fancy custom home, he has decided to devote his money and time to purchasing and using new bikes road and mtnskis downhill and tele and the list goes on. I hope it all works out for you. If my husband and I had been dating during any of this, it would not have lasted long a few weeks maximum.
Don't think your life is going to be all rainbows and great lifestyles. To others making this consideration, I would certainly suggest that you converse with your Father in Heaven about this important choice. I now think that 2 is the only reasonable choice to make, even as a man в staying single my whole life в until and unless I find the woman whom I cannot live without, the woman who is a true companion to me. That doesn't get better unless you humble yourself, either -- admit you might be wrong. I married outside the church and have no regrets. He is not a member and has told me he is not going to convert. Two years ago, I found out he was having an affair with one of his PA's at the hospital. You will be kept abreast of political changes within the church that regulate your wife's behavior -- you are probably already aware of several rules she follows. You are too young to deal with this. What my boyfriend and I used to do when we were long distance is write really, crazy long emails to each other almost as long as my blog posts.
I asked, he refused. Its been over a year and I don't know what to do. Props to people who do. Like it was mentioned above, see how she deals some of the issues now and if she can't handle it, it might be better to find someone else.
